Kindness Matters in Your Career

Kindness Matters in Yur Career Kindness Matters in Your Career Why do we assume that in order for us to do well at our jobs,other people must lose? Its a sad - and sadly common - state of affairs to think of life as a zero-sum game.When youre having a badeanstalt day, the thing you need most is a helping hand. If you havent given a hand to anyone else in the past - which youre not conditioned to do when you view others as competition - youre unlikely to get the help you need.Alternatively, if youve spent time helping others over the years, those around you are likely to do all they can for you.I heard a similar idea last year at thePodcast Movement conference. A speaker talked about how we, as podcasters, look at one another as competition. We each want to beNo. 1on iTunes. We dont want to help each other for fear that well lose listeners.Then, the speaker asked What would happen if we assumed there was room for everyone? What would happen if we assumed that we could all succee d in some way?If we changed our assumptions, itslikely that we would help each other more. We would talk to each other more. Wed share ideas and suggestions.We would all be more successful - together.Theres a strong temptation to be the best. We are taught to think this way as early as elementary school, where teachers rank us according to reading level or other distinctions. In continues into high school, where we fight to become the valedictorian or the best athlete. In college, there are scholarships and internships and letters of recommendation to be won. Theres always a ranking, and nobody wants to lose.But things dont really work this way. Life isnt about your solo struggle against the rest of the world. In life and business,we dont actually get ahead on our strength alone. We get ahead because of the people on our teams. We get ahead when we share our talents with others and lean on those whose strengths complement our own.Even if you could get ahead on your own, what would the prize be at the end of the journey?With whomcould you share your winnings? All aloneis a pretty lonely place to be.Remember Theres room for everyone at the top, and the best way to get there is together.A version of this article originally appeared onCopeland Coaching.Angela Copeland is a career coach and CEO at her firm,Copeland Coaching.